Friday, January 28, 2011

Wedding without 2 people in place?

Salam,

I'm just having the weirdest dream ever!

Me + him

In a separate occasion, i suppose its a wedding. It's the akad process, but im in a different place, and he's at other place.

Can 2 people get wed like that? Really?

Ada-lah. People actually do it. I've find an article! There are some other article with so much islamic terms that im not sure of it. So, i just link this one since it's a real case, and not just an article.

But if i ever happen to get wed like that (like the one in my dream. really simple occasion, no pelamin n everything. Just people -close family and friends) the first question that people ask should be..

"is she pregnant?"

Lame~ don't you know, marriage is not just about sex? OMG!

Well, having a wedding nowadays, need llloooooOOotts of commitment. Wedding itself is a whole-life commitment! Having a wedding is like damm huge commitment. I'm talking about money here.

Keep wondering: is "your-not-so-perfect-bf" suit for not "so-perfect-you", or your "you-think-so-perfect-bf (but he's not perfect at all)" is the one for you.

owhh~ that's real tough! Im blurr.

After wedding itself, more stuff to think of

2 familys, 4 hometome, lots of sibling?.. maybe more pets? and kids on the way.

That will be a headache.

Be prepared! (I'm warning myself).

And you, be prepared to!

Economically (money), mentally n physically.

End.

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Salam,

I'm just having the weirdest dream ever!

Me + him

In a separate occasion, i suppose its a wedding. It's the akad process, but im in a different place, and he's at other place.

Can 2 people get wed like that? Really?

Ada-lah. People actually do it. I've find an article! There are some other article with so much islamic terms that im not sure of it. So, i just link this one since it's a real case, and not just an article.

But if i ever happen to get wed like that (like the one in my dream. really simple occasion, no pelamin n everything. Just people -close family and friends) the first question that people ask should be..

"is she pregnant?"

Lame~ don't you know, marriage is not just about sex? OMG!

Well, having a wedding nowadays, need llloooooOOotts of commitment. Wedding itself is a whole-life commitment! Having a wedding is like damm huge commitment. I'm talking about money here.

Keep wondering: is "your-not-so-perfect-bf" suit for not "so-perfect-you", or your "you-think-so-perfect-bf (but he's not perfect at all)" is the one for you.

owhh~ that's real tough! Im blurr.

After wedding itself, more stuff to think of

2 familys, 4 hometome, lots of sibling?.. maybe more pets? and kids on the way.

That will be a headache.

Be prepared! (I'm warning myself).

And you, be prepared to!

Economically (money), mentally n physically.

End.

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