Sunday, April 17, 2011

When your ex ask u to marry him.. what do you do?


Well, this is not so complicated stuff.

This happen to me. I had a chat with one of my ex. Duh! I do make friend with most of my ex. It does seems awkward, at first. Really. Later then, when they moved on with life, we're just a friend who know the other side of each other.

So, this guy ask me, will i marry him.

Are you guys, just randomly ask people to marry you?

Well, my answer is certainly no. I won't marry him. I'm waiting for someone. 'Status: In relationship' does means something, ok? The guy im with (referring to rj).. he's special.

He's not as handsome as Prince Artur in Merlin, not as cute as Ashton Kutcher. But he's a good man. Indeed. He's kind, sweet, i adore him. A lot.

Please don't puke.

He's just.. more than words.


So, i totally say no to my ex. I actually saying no for (other) marriage proposal since 2 years back? I think.. Just that the other 2 proposal is actually from parents.
Instead of the person itself.

Do people just proposed others to get married? Realy? I wait for the special one to proposed. And you people just pop the question. It's just that easy? Huh?

I'm confused. Well, i don't.

Message to rj: thanks for being there for me. I do appreciate it (a lot). I've change a lot throughout the years.. Story start when we're in matriculation..

2005 - we studied @ the same institution.. He claim to noticed me... Ak xperasan beliaw langsong! Uhuk!!

2006 - USM.. 1st year... owh, xde contact langsung.. xtau ape jadik.. beliau kate ade buat2 misskol n salah mesej.. hahhaa.. ngeng!

2007 - 2nd year.. ade lah contact.. dan sy kenal dah beliau.. ktorang ade jumpe sesekali as friends la kan.. sy save name beliaw kat phone .. kmns-x.. buleh plak?

2008 - he's sorta my bff.. i shared most of the stuff with him. He's sweet n such a good listener. I think that's the best quality he have.

2009 - it's a surprise visit for new year. I'm just overjoyed. Really. So, we are 'officially' attached to each other on 1st January 2009..

It's been 2 years, officially the longest period i've been attached to someone. I thank Allah for him. I hope this will last till death keep us apart. Amin.

ps 2: don't just simple ask others to marry you. Marriage means something, and made to last long. Not just simply. It's about sharing your life with somebody you love. You think you know him, but you are actually not. It's about accepting your partner for what he/ she is. Not just by knowing what color he/ she likes. It's just beyond.

Are you ready (like really ready), to make it last?

Side note: i do thinks of marriage quite often. The more i think of it, the scarier it be.

2 comments:

SumandakShawls said...

sweetnya..dear..i nhy yg doq risau..u slalu jumpa incik bf u???hurmm..i dpt jumpa raya je..since msok staD..duq jauh2..T_T

farapink said...

alolo~ cianyye.. 2 minggu sekali o sebulan sekali kami jmpe a... xde la selalu sgt... tp ok a.. ^.^

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Well, this is not so complicated stuff.

This happen to me. I had a chat with one of my ex. Duh! I do make friend with most of my ex. It does seems awkward, at first. Really. Later then, when they moved on with life, we're just a friend who know the other side of each other.

So, this guy ask me, will i marry him.

Are you guys, just randomly ask people to marry you?

Well, my answer is certainly no. I won't marry him. I'm waiting for someone. 'Status: In relationship' does means something, ok? The guy im with (referring to rj).. he's special.

He's not as handsome as Prince Artur in Merlin, not as cute as Ashton Kutcher. But he's a good man. Indeed. He's kind, sweet, i adore him. A lot.

Please don't puke.

He's just.. more than words.


So, i totally say no to my ex. I actually saying no for (other) marriage proposal since 2 years back? I think.. Just that the other 2 proposal is actually from parents.
Instead of the person itself.

Do people just proposed others to get married? Realy? I wait for the special one to proposed. And you people just pop the question. It's just that easy? Huh?

I'm confused. Well, i don't.

Message to rj: thanks for being there for me. I do appreciate it (a lot). I've change a lot throughout the years.. Story start when we're in matriculation..

2005 - we studied @ the same institution.. He claim to noticed me... Ak xperasan beliaw langsong! Uhuk!!

2006 - USM.. 1st year... owh, xde contact langsung.. xtau ape jadik.. beliau kate ade buat2 misskol n salah mesej.. hahhaa.. ngeng!

2007 - 2nd year.. ade lah contact.. dan sy kenal dah beliau.. ktorang ade jumpe sesekali as friends la kan.. sy save name beliaw kat phone .. kmns-x.. buleh plak?

2008 - he's sorta my bff.. i shared most of the stuff with him. He's sweet n such a good listener. I think that's the best quality he have.

2009 - it's a surprise visit for new year. I'm just overjoyed. Really. So, we are 'officially' attached to each other on 1st January 2009..

It's been 2 years, officially the longest period i've been attached to someone. I thank Allah for him. I hope this will last till death keep us apart. Amin.

ps 2: don't just simple ask others to marry you. Marriage means something, and made to last long. Not just simply. It's about sharing your life with somebody you love. You think you know him, but you are actually not. It's about accepting your partner for what he/ she is. Not just by knowing what color he/ she likes. It's just beyond.

Are you ready (like really ready), to make it last?

Side note: i do thinks of marriage quite often. The more i think of it, the scarier it be.

2 comments:

SumandakShawls said...

sweetnya..dear..i nhy yg doq risau..u slalu jumpa incik bf u???hurmm..i dpt jumpa raya je..since msok staD..duq jauh2..T_T

farapink said...

alolo~ cianyye.. 2 minggu sekali o sebulan sekali kami jmpe a... xde la selalu sgt... tp ok a.. ^.^

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